Preparing your child

Parents should not make a big deal out of the visit. One of the most important things you can do for your child while preparing for their first dental visit is to make sure you are positive about the experience and don't impose any of your fears on them. We are experienced in dealing with children with anxiety and can explain treatment procedures in a positive and pleasant manner to avoid any anxious or negative feelings toward dentistry.

Please understand that children look to their parents to help determine if a new situation is going to be OK or if they should worry. Saying something as simple as "don't worry" or "it won't hurt" introduces the concepts of "worry" and "hurt". Unfortunately, your child will not process the word "don't" and will only hear your concern and apprehension.

Explain to your child that the dentist is a friendly doctor that helps take care of teeth. We find that it is more positive and productive to explain to your child that they are going to see your "friend" the dentist.

• Don't use words like "needle" or "drill."
• On the day of the visit, say only, "We are going to my friend the dentist, and he cleans and counts teeth."
• If your child asks other questions, answer honestly that you don't know, but they can ask the dentist directly.
• Never allow your child to hear stories about dental experiences from others, whether good or bad.
• Do not offer treats or bribes for "being good" at the dentist.
• Avoid making promises about what the dentist will or will not do.

It is helpful to tell your child that the dentist will count their teeth, brush them with a special toothbrush, and take pictures using a special camera. You can also let them know that we have stickers and prizes for all our "good helpers".

This positive wording helps your child feel prepared and excited for a fun dental visit. If your child has questions you cannot answer, simply say, "I don't know, we can ask the dentist when we get there."